Dear Diedre: Moving on from an abusive relationship


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“Dear Diedre” is a recurring column on Radio Free Richmond. With life coach experience and an intimate knowledge of Richmond, Diedre Goree offers her advice to members of the community. Do you have a question for Diedre? Email stories@radiofreerichmond.com.

 

Dear Diedre,

I’m 26 years-old and I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years.  We met at Contra Costa College; he and I had the same psychology class.  As usual, everything was good in the beginning, I’d say for about the first year and a half.  We had fun and went on a few mini vacations together before I started noticing him throwing shade a lot. At first he would say little things that were offensive, but he’d be joking so I didn’t mind.  My friends made comments about this, so I would make smart comments back and we’d laugh about it.  But after I while I started hating these comments, and he stopped (for a while anyway).  

Then he and my friends stopped getting along. They hated him, and he hated them.  It got to the point where I just stopped having them spend time together.  And eventually he complained so much about my friends that I stopped seeing them myself.

Eventually our relationship was nothing but us eating, watching movies, and arguing.  One of us was always mad or had an attitude and it felt like seeing each other was more of a chore than pleasure. The name calling got worse, the disrespect got worse, and the arguments got worse.  I have to admit the only thing that we did that kept us smiling was sex, but of course after a while I didn’t want to be touched by a man that called me names. We broke up a few times, and then, of course, we got back together.  Things would be good for a few months, and then it would all start over again. But now I swear I’m over him for good. 

The last fight we had, he talked about me so bad that I cried like a baby in public. We were in the parking lot of Safeway and he was so loud people could hear him. I was embarrassed to say the least.  We broke up that night. Well, after two weeks he called me and over dinner he asked me to marry him.  I was shocked to say the least. He swears he’s changed and wants to work on making things right. He started crying and everything! That was different. Unfortunately, I’ve been seeing someone else and I’m no longer interested. 

What do you do when you’ve moved on, but he hasn’t?

Signed,
Moved on...

 

Dear Moved On,

It sounds like you and your ex-boyfriend have been going through what is called the cycle of abuse. First your partner lashes out with aggressive, belittling, or violent behavior. Then comes guilt and apologies from him. He straightens up and acts like the boyfriend you’ve always wanted…until he gets mad again.  Sometimes you break the cycle by breaking up with him, but you two start the cycle again when you’ve gotten back together. The good thing is that it sounds like you want to stop the cycle once and for all now.  Congratulations for loving yourself so much that you refuse to continue the craziness. 

There are two parts to a break up. First you have to distance yourself permanently from the relationship and then you have to work on yourself.

Since you agreed to see him after two weeks you still may have some hidden feelings, despite the fact you are seeing someone else.  You could possibly be in a rebound relationship, so the possibility is high of you returning to your ex if this new relationship ends.  I encourage you to start a journal so you can write your thoughts down.  Make a  list of all the reasons why things got better once the relationship was over. Describe what might have happened had you stayed with this person, and how many more years of your life you would have given to this unhealthy relationship. Keep this list close to you at all times. 

It's a good idea to halt having any contact with him at all. Refrain from phone calls, text messages, emails, etc. Otherwise, it's extremely easy for you and him to slip right back into your old roles and start the cycle all over again. Don't get sucked into the same old arguments, guilt trips, or drama. You’ve stated your intention and walked away. There's nothing left to do and no more to talk about. If he’s insistent you may have to get legal help.

Keep yourself as busy as possible with friends and family or with your new boyfriend. You need all of these people to prevent you from falling victim to boredom or sadness and going back to your old relationship. If they start talking about him and rehashing old memories, tell them you don't want to talk about it — whether it’s good or bad. Get rid of gifts, photographs, and any other memories of you and him. 

Prepare yourself for some type of backlash.  I encourage you to change your phone number.  I know it’s an inconvenience, but it will prevent him from blowing up your phone with calls, messages, and texts. If he reaches out to your friends or family, make sure everyone is on the same page.  Again, never be too proud to get any legal help if necessary. 

NOW—you still need to do some self-reflection to make sure you’re not carrying some old baggage into the new relationship.  You have to take the time to ask yourself the deep questions like: 

1.     Why did I stay so long?

2.     What was I looking for?

3.     What did I bring to the table? 

It’s important to start learning how to forgive and forget…him and yourself. Forgive yourself, both for your behavior and everything that happened.  Each of you took part of the drama and chaos in the relationship so you need to forgive to really move on. The forgetting will take time. And that's okay.

It’s also time to design a new life plan.  When you were in this relationship, you like most people probably made compromises. Now's the time to act selfish and concentrate on yourself again. Find ways of regaining yourself, rebuilding your sense of self as a separate individual rather than half of a couple.  Think back on some of the personal sacrifices you had to give up for this relationship (friendships, hobbies, dreams, goals) and give them some attention now. 

Keep mentally and physically fit. Exercise and education are good ways to vent any excess frustration and pain, in addition to helping you look good and be happier.  Long relationships don’t fade automatically, so don't be hard on yourself or go backwards if the transition doesn't seem to go quickly. That's natural. But have faith that it will get better.

 

Keep me posted and keep moving positively forward,

Diedre

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  • commented 2015-12-22 17:26:37 -0800
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  • commented 2015-12-22 17:26:15 -0800
    I am Dianna from Michigan, i was in a serious relationship with my Ex Boyfriend for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that once had a similar problem and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (rasheedtemple@gmail.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 2 days i was in my office when my Boyfriend called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)…you can contact this great spell caster with name Dr Rasheed from India through his email at( rasheedtemple@gmail.com )i wish you the best of luck…
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  • commented 2015-12-09 17:43:08 -0800
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  • commented 2015-12-07 00:41:05 -0800
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  • commented 2015-12-07 00:40:31 -0800
    I’ m Alice Chapman from USA,this is incredible! I still imagine how Dr. Candova brought my husband back to me in just 24 hours.. No one could have ever made me believe that this testimony that I’m about to write now would actually one day be written by me. because I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a trustworthy source (a very close co-worker) that Dr. Candova is a very devoted, talented, and gifted spell caster, and after much cajole she got me to visit this email:Candovalovespell@gmail.com .It was one of the most excellent thing I have ever done in my whole life. My love life was in total mess after my husband dumped me for another woman,and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. So, with nothing but my pride to lose, I checked it out. I was flabbergasted. This man is for REAL. He did whatever magic he does, and lo and behold – no more than 48 hours later, I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage psychotherapy, and we’re doing very, very well right now. and now he has loved me more than ever..Thank you so much Dr. Candova for your Love and for reuniting my family back sir, his Email:Candovalovespell@gmail.com,or Candovalovespell@yahoo.com. Tel:+2348131612153
  • commented 2015-12-04 16:24:32 -0800
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  • commented 2015-12-04 15:52:20 -0800
    Today is a day i will never forget in my entire life because on December 4 2014 i meet Great doctor online called Doctor Davidson who help me to cast a spell to get pregnant and have a baby of my own, i and my husband have been married for 10 years without any baby to call our own because i was having some issues with my womb due to the series of abortion i had in the past with my ex boyfriend. when i saw a testimony of Dr Davidson online i have to contact him and be sincere with my issues i told him everything that has happened to me in the past so he promise to help cast a spell so that i can get pregnant and also get back my husband immediately that the spell will only take him 24hours to cast so i have to give all that is required of me so that he can help me, after he was done with the casting of the spell my husband came back begging me on his knees that i should forgive him so i forgave him and after two weeks we been together i missed my ovulation period then i went to my doctor for test and he confirm that i was pregnant. today i am carrying my own baby all thanks to DR Davidson for his spiritual and powerful spell he is capable of the following things: contact him today: drdavidsonsolutionhome@yahoo.com OR phone number +2349053690611

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  • commented 2015-12-03 18:08:03 -0800
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  • commented 2015-11-16 13:53:52 -0800
    My heart was crushed in early February this year 2015 and my marriage and Love life was completely muddled and broken down. I was so heart broken and i needed to put an end to the imbroglio that has affected my marriage for the past nine months because i and my kids needed my husband to be back home this Christmas. I knew fully well that I must learn to love myself before anything else and i knew he was meant for me with no doubt, because when we first met till after 14 years of our marriage, he was there for me. After our divorce, without a shadow of a doubt I do felt completely off balance and i was living each day with no direction and very little actual presence of myself. I felt like I was on auto pilot and I was wasting day after day all in pains..And as of February 3rd, he started bringing in all the lies, the other women, etc. I knew I married for bigger reasons so I hope its just the fog of our issues that brought in the uncertainty. I always liked to keep an open mind, because ultimately i just wanted everything to be ok with the 3 of us (my son my husband and myself) And Its has not been easy after all the times he’s left. I just didn’t want to keep falling deeper into the wrong direction. My divorce totally went into default in FEBRUARY. I was totally frustrated and i needed help from an online spell caster which Priest Omar rendered to me completely. Finally I am writing this testimony to offer my thanks and deep gratitude to you Priest Omar for keeping to your words and your promises in bringing him back to me in just 24 hours of your powerful spell casting, and for using your gifted and great powers to bring him back today the 2nd of November 2015. Its an Amazing experience i had with you priest Omar. Are you out there experiencing same problems in your marriage, then you can reach him on His Email: victorywhitemagicspell@outlook.com.. His Website: http://victorywhitemagicspell.webs.com. you can also call him on his Telephone: +1 863 274 3763.
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  • commented 2015-08-18 15:47:23 -0700
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  • commented 2015-07-08 13:09:44 -0700
    Hello to every one i want to testify of what a spell caster has done for me,i was in a relationship for two years happy with my partner few months to our wedding she left me and went after another man she never came back home again, i cry all day looking for help i have contacted so many spell caster but no result one day i was on the internet when i came across a testimony on how Doctor Jatto helped some one to get back his lover so i gave a try and it work out for me am so happy to have my lover back to my self again thanks once again Doctor Jatto for helping me to bring back my lover if you are passing through the same problem or any kind of situation and you think all hope is lost my dear is not. contact Doctor Jatto on his email : (drjattosplltemple@gmail.com). OR you can call the great man on +2349035512062.
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  • commented 2015-07-08 13:09:24 -0700
    Hello to every one i want to testify of what a spell caster has done for me,i was in a relationship for two years happy with my partner few months to our wedding she left me and went after another man she never came back home again, i cry all day looking for help i have contacted so many spell caster but no result one day i was on the internet when i came across a testimony on how Doctor Jatto helped some one to get back his lover so i gave a try and it work out for me am so happy to have my lover back to my self again thanks once again Doctor Jatto for helping me to bring back my lover if you are passing through the same problem or any kind of situation and you think all hope is lost my dear is not. contact Doctor Jatto on his email : (drjattosplltemple@gmail.com). OR you can call the great man on +2349035512062.
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    Hello to every one i want to testify of what a spell caster has done for me,i was in a relationship for two years happy with my partner few months to our wedding she left me and went after another man she never came back home again, i cry all day looking for help i have contacted so many spell caster but no result one day i was on the internet when i came across a testimony on how Doctor Jatto helped some one to get back his lover so i gave a try and it work out for me am so happy to have my lover back to my self again thanks once again Doctor Jatto for helping me to bring back my lover if you are passing through the same problem or any kind of situation and you think all hope is lost my dear is not. contact Doctor Jatto on his email : (drjattosplltemple@gmail.com). OR you can call the great man on +2349035512062.
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  • commented 2015-06-25 17:52:02 -0700
    how i got my husband back and got pregnant after 5 years!!!my husband has been patient with me and has been encouraging me that it will be best if we had hopes that we will have a child one day.last year,we had a little fight and he demanded for a divorce and i was so down because without him,i am nothing.he left me and the next day i met him with another woman in a shopping mall.i even tried talking to him but he pretended he didn’t know me.i told my friend about it and she introduced me to the Famous prophet [prophet Osaze],who helps in so many ways.i contacted him and he did his thing,within 24 hours my husband called me and apologized that he was sorry for everything and that i should take him back and that he will cancel the divorce,i had no choice than to accept him,and we have been living happily until i felt sick and went for check up and the doctor confirmed me pregnant.i am so happy and all thanks to prophet Osaze for all his help.contact him now for any kind of problem and he will surely try his best to make you happy. His email is (spirituallove@hotmail.com)OR
  • commented 2015-06-25 17:51:43 -0700
    how i got my husband back and got pregnant after 5 years!!!my husband has been patient with me and has been encouraging me that it will be best if we had hopes that we will have a child one day.last year,we had a little fight and he demanded for a divorce and i was so down because without him,i am nothing.he left me and the next day i met him with another woman in a shopping mall.i even tried talking to him but he pretended he didn’t know me.i told my friend about it and she introduced me to the Famous prophet [prophet Osaze],who helps in so many ways.i contacted him and he did his thing,within 24 hours my husband called me and apologized that he was sorry for everything and that i should take him back and that he will cancel the divorce,i had no choice than to accept him,and we have been living happily until i felt sick and went for check up and the doctor confirmed me pregnant.i am so happy and all thanks to prophet Osaze for all his help.contact him now for any kind of problem and he will surely try his best to make you happy. His email is (spirituallove@hotmail.com)OR
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